Nice link—thanks. My daughter’s going to be Santa Claus age soon enough. Maybe I’ll print this out for future reference. Probably unbearably saccharine to the childless, but hey, they may have some crumbgobblers of their own someday, and then it will make more sense.
Seems to me (maybe I’ll report back on this in, say, a decade) that the “Santa Claus shock” won’t be as bad as a “God shock” because people who lie to their kids about Santa Claus know they are lying and every kid finds out the truth sooner or later; whereas theists don’t think they are lying, and some people never come to believe they’re wrong. So the “God shock” is a double whammy, finding out your parents are both wrong, and well, liars. In that sense, then the Santa Claus shock is going to be less harmful, as it were. But I think it sets a good precedent with your kids to be as honest as you can with them on the Big Questions while at the same time teaching them a lesson in consideration—don’t go telling all the other kids at school that Santa Claus isn’t real. Part of teaching them to be members of a tolerant free society.
Some 4th grader did that at school when I was a believing kindergartener—that was may more painful than finding out my parents knew Santa Claus isn’t real.
This is ridiculous. A “truth twister”? This isn’t hypocrisy. This is lying. To yourself, mostly. Unless you live in a cave, you tell white lies every day. Ever say Good Afternoon when you didn’t feel like it?
This sort of moral highhorsing gets us nowhere. Stop it, please.