I am not sure how to say… Yeah, it’s a good idea to know what people think. But how to act from that? It’s obvious to me how to act from your own belief “sky is blue” or from replacing it into literally “sky is not blue”. But I still have no idea how to act from “I think that sky is blue because it looks like that, but physics who know better say ‘sky is not actually blue’”.
And by my own experience I noticed that all tries to follow others people advices which contradict my own understanding, end up horribly. Because if I can’t see why they aren’t object level wrong, I can’t perform them in the proper way meant by others. And even worse, then I can’t even learn about what had gone wrongly, in difference with following my own thoughts.
And when I actually succeed to understand it for proper performing, I also stop to disagree with others opinion.
Mostly what I inferred from that is that you can’t even truly disagree with somebody if you can’t understand what he thought, not just what he said. (which contradicted to my principle of not trying to guess people thoughts, because you don’t have access to their thoughts, only to their words)
I am not sure how to say… Yeah, it’s a good idea to know what people think. But how to act from that? It’s obvious to me how to act from your own belief “sky is blue” or from replacing it into literally “sky is not blue”. But I still have no idea how to act from “I think that sky is blue because it looks like that, but physics who know better say ‘sky is not actually blue’”.
And by my own experience I noticed that all tries to follow others people advices which contradict my own understanding, end up horribly. Because if I can’t see why they aren’t object level wrong, I can’t perform them in the proper way meant by others. And even worse, then I can’t even learn about what had gone wrongly, in difference with following my own thoughts.
And when I actually succeed to understand it for proper performing, I also stop to disagree with others opinion.
Mostly what I inferred from that is that you can’t even truly disagree with somebody if you can’t understand what he thought, not just what he said. (which contradicted to my principle of not trying to guess people thoughts, because you don’t have access to their thoughts, only to their words)