I think I’d be more inclined to frame this sort of thing as typical mind fallacy. Modeling it in terms of an I Win button seems to violate Hanlon’s Razor: we don’t need an adversarial model when plain old ignorance will suffice, and I don’t think preferred interaction style is a matter of conscious choice for most people.
I think I’d be more inclined to frame this sort of thing as typical mind fallacy. Modeling it in terms of an I Win button seems to violate Hanlon’s Razor: we don’t need an adversarial model when plain old ignorance will suffice, and I don’t think preferred interaction style is a matter of conscious choice for most people.
Alternatively, the situation can be described in terms of tell vs. guess culture.
I’d split the difference—I believe the typical mind fallacy can shade into believing that other sorts of minds aren’t worth respecting.