Sure, my standard safeword script runs roughly as follows:
Hold out your arm. <She holds out her arm, and I hold it by the wrist with one hand>
Your safewords are red and yellow. Yellow means caution, red means stop. If you can’t speak, tapping <at this point I tap her arm to demonstrate> also substitutes for “red”. Understand? <Usually she nods>
Now I’m going to cause you some pain, increasing over time. I want you to say “yellow” and then “red” when it feels appropriate.
<Still holding her wrist, I put my thumb on a pressure point near the bicep, and start to squeeze, slowly increasing pressure. Usually that one alone isn’t enough pain for a safeword, so I’ll eventually switch to the hip flexor. Eventually, she says “yellow”, and I ease off a little, then continue the ramp-up a little slower until she says “red”. This whole time, I mostly watch her face, to make sure I can actually tell when she’s feeling bad levels of pain; from my end this is about calibration of pain tolerance and reactions at least as much as safewords.>
<Eventually, she says “red”, and I immediately stop.> Good girl.
(This is assuming someone subby and masochistic, obviously it runs a little different otherwise, but the high level generally stays the same.)
Sure, my standard safeword script runs roughly as follows:
(This is assuming someone subby and masochistic, obviously it runs a little different otherwise, but the high level generally stays the same.)