I think the assumption here is that a preference for being “attactive” and “interesting” is trivial, but I do not think this is so:
You may wish not to draw attention to yourself.
You may wish to not to be interpreted as as sexually available.
You may wish to not be interpreted as someone who puts effort into appearances.
For me, all of these are true most of the time, perhaps even all the time outside of date night, and I’d be surprised if I’m a particularly rare case.
I think the assumption here is that a preference for being “attactive” and “interesting” is trivial, but I do not think this is so:
You may wish not to draw attention to yourself.
You may wish to not to be interpreted as as sexually available.
You may wish to not be interpreted as someone who puts effort into appearances.
For me, all of these are true most of the time, perhaps even all the time outside of date night, and I’d be surprised if I’m a particularly rare case.