you are substituting one model for another; “I shouldn’t have to ask my partner for what I want” is replaced by “I should have to ask my partner for what I want.”
Given my experiences with working with beliefs I don’t think that’s the case.
Unfortunately most of the evidence I have for that is personal experience and talking to other people with personal experience so I can’t link you to a resource making that point.
Given my experiences with working with beliefs I don’t think that’s the case.
Unfortunately most of the evidence I have for that is personal experience and talking to other people with personal experience so I can’t link you to a resource making that point.