I note that this and the above point are compatible/not necessarily in disagreement.
thinking in terms of force concentration can make it easier to perceive relevant moments, because you know what you’re searching for
Yeah. One of the most revelatory questions anyone ever asked me was “so, you say you’re searching for romantic partners. Where are they? Like, literally, right now, right this moment, where in the physical world are the kinds of people you think you want to date and marry? Are they at the library, the park, the bar, the skating rink—what?”
Which led me to realize that I’d been putting most of my efforts in places where those people weren’t.
I note that this and the above point are compatible/not necessarily in disagreement.
Yeah. One of the most revelatory questions anyone ever asked me was “so, you say you’re searching for romantic partners. Where are they? Like, literally, right now, right this moment, where in the physical world are the kinds of people you think you want to date and marry? Are they at the library, the park, the bar, the skating rink—what?”
Which led me to realize that I’d been putting most of my efforts in places where those people weren’t.