Fwiw while wit matters in flirting, I’ve found it’s much more about energy.
I don’t know if this abstract description will make sense to you, but ime the way that flirting leads to sex is by continually ramping up sexual tension by a sort of plausible deniability of sexual interest -
one way to do this is you’re talking about sexy things but not being overtly sexual with your energy, or having a sexual energy but it’s more teasing or talking about non sexy things
In any case, if both people are into it, and don’t let the tension escape through other outlets, the way to release it is sexual escalation. And as long as the escalation (E. G. Cuddling, kissing etc) is still less than the sexual energy calls for, the tension continues to build to sexual intimacy.
Fwiw while wit matters in flirting, I’ve found it’s much more about energy.
I don’t know if this abstract description will make sense to you, but ime the way that flirting leads to sex is by continually ramping up sexual tension by a sort of plausible deniability of sexual interest -
one way to do this is you’re talking about sexy things but not being overtly sexual with your energy, or having a sexual energy but it’s more teasing or talking about non sexy things
In any case, if both people are into it, and don’t let the tension escape through other outlets, the way to release it is sexual escalation. And as long as the escalation (E. G. Cuddling, kissing etc) is still less than the sexual energy calls for, the tension continues to build to sexual intimacy.