No, it doesn’t, because it’s talking about the responsibility of the individual, not the group. If someone tells me I’m behaving inappropriately, that’s for me to deal with. It’s only if and when I don’t deal with it that it becomes a problem for a group—and one would hope that any group confronted with such a person would dismiss their complaints.
He recommends bringing it to the group in this comment, but says in the other comment that even if the entire group disagrees with the creeped out person they are still in the right.
Only as a last resort, and he didn’t prescribe a particular action for the group to take. The whole point was that individual people should take responsibility for addressing problems if they can, but that individuals don’t have sole power to evict people from the group, which was the argument he was responding to.
No, it doesn’t, because it’s talking about the responsibility of the individual, not the group. If someone tells me I’m behaving inappropriately, that’s for me to deal with. It’s only if and when I don’t deal with it that it becomes a problem for a group—and one would hope that any group confronted with such a person would dismiss their complaints.
This directly contradicts your comment in response to Douglas_Reay lower down
How so?
He recommends bringing it to the group in this comment, but says in the other comment that even if the entire group disagrees with the creeped out person they are still in the right.
Only as a last resort, and he didn’t prescribe a particular action for the group to take. The whole point was that individual people should take responsibility for addressing problems if they can, but that individuals don’t have sole power to evict people from the group, which was the argument he was responding to.
Exactly,