Your perspective might be uncommon, but I share it completely.
School: sit still and don’t speak unless prompted. Wanna go to the toilet, ask for permission. Ten years of this crap. Also, interactions with fellow inmates are fun: “If you leave a bunch of eleven-year-olds to their own devices, what you get is Lord of the Flies” (Paul Graham)
Home: you’re dependent and can’t help it. Fights with parents over pocket money and computer time. Go to bed and get up on schedule. No personal space. You can have some jam after you finish your porridge.
External world: think it’s hard to face stereotypes being a woman? Try being a kid.
Agreed that children don’t have a lot of good reasons to be happy, but not sure that’s very relevant here. My observations of children suggest that when they’re raised well they have a really high happiness set point, or are just plain better at being happy than adults for developmental reasons unrelated to their circumstances. I don’t really trust my own memories of childhood, but the children I hang around always look like they’re having more fun than adults nearby, unless they’re specifically being prevented from doing so.
Your perspective might be uncommon, but I share it completely.
School: sit still and don’t speak unless prompted. Wanna go to the toilet, ask for permission. Ten years of this crap. Also, interactions with fellow inmates are fun: “If you leave a bunch of eleven-year-olds to their own devices, what you get is Lord of the Flies” (Paul Graham)
Home: you’re dependent and can’t help it. Fights with parents over pocket money and computer time. Go to bed and get up on schedule. No personal space. You can have some jam after you finish your porridge.
External world: think it’s hard to face stereotypes being a woman? Try being a kid.
You are so far below having civil rights, that people use you as an excuse to put restrictions on adults.
Agreed that children don’t have a lot of good reasons to be happy, but not sure that’s very relevant here. My observations of children suggest that when they’re raised well they have a really high happiness set point, or are just plain better at being happy than adults for developmental reasons unrelated to their circumstances. I don’t really trust my own memories of childhood, but the children I hang around always look like they’re having more fun than adults nearby, unless they’re specifically being prevented from doing so.
The Final Prejudice, by David Deutsch