I think with enough enthusiasm anyone can go clubbing, and tbh imo stuff which looks stupid in a club just becomes entertaining. If you really feel embarrassed about it, one way to go about this is to play into the stupidity by really overexaggerating the moves to play into the humour.
I think with age the ick comes from older guys who come to look at young girls and nothing else. I have a mate who’s 49 and comes out clubbing with us, and is more enthusiastic than any of us on the dance floor and everyone loves it.
My late wife in particular thought my dancing was bad, which is why I brought it up; I mentioned the term “dad dancing” to her and she thought it was an appropriate description. (She happened to be nine years younger than I was.)
I think with enough enthusiasm anyone can go clubbing, and tbh imo stuff which looks stupid in a club just becomes entertaining. If you really feel embarrassed about it, one way to go about this is to play into the stupidity by really overexaggerating the moves to play into the humour.
I think with age the ick comes from older guys who come to look at young girls and nothing else. I have a mate who’s 49 and comes out clubbing with us, and is more enthusiastic than any of us on the dance floor and everyone loves it.
My late wife in particular thought my dancing was bad, which is why I brought it up; I mentioned the term “dad dancing” to her and she thought it was an appropriate description. (She happened to be nine years younger than I was.)