Ah, I think this just reads like you don’t think of romantic relationships as having any value proposition beyond the sexual, other than those you listed (which are Things but not The Thing, where The Thing is some weird discursive milieu). Also the tone you used for describing the other Things is as though they are traps that convince one, incorrectly, to ‘settle’, rather than things that could actually plausibly outweigh sexual satisfaction.
Different people place different weight on sexual satisfaction (for a lot of different reasons, including age).
I’m mostly just trying to explain all the disagree votes. I think you’ll get the most satisfying answer to your actual question by having a long chat with one of your asexual friends (as something like a control group, since the value of sex to them is always 0 anyway, so whatever their cause is for having romantic relationships is probably the kind of thing that you’re looking for here).
I think you’ll get the most satisfying answer to your actual question by having a long chat with one of your asexual friends (as something like a control group, since the value of sex to them is always 0 anyway, so whatever their cause is for having romantic relationships is probably the kind of thing that you’re looking for here).
Ah, I think this just reads like you don’t think of romantic relationships as having any value proposition beyond the sexual, other than those you listed (which are Things but not The Thing, where The Thing is some weird discursive milieu). Also the tone you used for describing the other Things is as though they are traps that convince one, incorrectly, to ‘settle’, rather than things that could actually plausibly outweigh sexual satisfaction.
Different people place different weight on sexual satisfaction (for a lot of different reasons, including age).
I’m mostly just trying to explain all the disagree votes. I think you’ll get the most satisfying answer to your actual question by having a long chat with one of your asexual friends (as something like a control group, since the value of sex to them is always 0 anyway, so whatever their cause is for having romantic relationships is probably the kind of thing that you’re looking for here).
That’s an excellent suggestion, thanks.