Have you personally done the thing successfully with another person, with both of you actually picking up on the other person’s hints?
Yes. But usually the escalation happens over weeks or months, over multiple conversations (at least in my relatively awkward nerd experience). So it’d be difficult to notice people doing this. Maybe twice I’ve been in situations where hints escalated within a day or two, but both were building from a non-zero level of suspected interest. But none of these would have been easy to notice from the outside, except maybe at a couple of moments.
Yes. But usually the escalation happens over weeks or months, over multiple conversations (at least in my relatively awkward nerd experience). So it’d be difficult to notice people doing this. Maybe twice I’ve been in situations where hints escalated within a day or two, but both were building from a non-zero level of suspected interest. But none of these would have been easy to notice from the outside, except maybe at a couple of moments.