This is late, but as a highschooler who very recently realized that I don’t actually have any close friends and found that deeply upsetting (while also being kind of lost on where to make better friends), thank you from the bottom of my heart.
I recently noticed that I’m starting to turn into a reclusive loner type who rather avoids people altogether than spend time on unsatisfying friendships, and I’m very worried about that. I’d really prefer to avoid that particular pitfall into misery in time, so thank you a lot for posting this. “How to make friends you actually enjoy being around” is just not something you randomly find advice on that often, so I appreciate this all the more.
I’ll try your advice, perhaps some of it will work out for me.
This is late, but as a highschooler who very recently realized that I don’t actually have any close friends and found that deeply upsetting (while also being kind of lost on where to make better friends), thank you from the bottom of my heart.
I recently noticed that I’m starting to turn into a reclusive loner type who rather avoids people altogether than spend time on unsatisfying friendships, and I’m very worried about that. I’d really prefer to avoid that particular pitfall into misery in time, so thank you a lot for posting this. “How to make friends you actually enjoy being around” is just not something you randomly find advice on that often, so I appreciate this all the more.
I’ll try your advice, perhaps some of it will work out for me.
Thanks a lot for the kind words! Good luck :)