The main answer is that I haven’t had much issue with that, so I don’t know what I’m doing differently. Having large hands and some muscle are unfortunately obvious hypotheses for what might be relevant. Physically, I usually have all my body weight on my partner, and significant weight over my arms holding her head down, with my elbows to the side of the head to keep it relatively still.
The main answer is that I haven’t had much issue with that, so I don’t know what I’m doing differently. Having large hands and some muscle are unfortunately obvious hypotheses for what might be relevant. Physically, I usually have all my body weight on my partner, and significant weight over my arms holding her head down, with my elbows to the side of the head to keep it relatively still.
This thread needs a bit of counterbalance.
One can consider an alternative in bonding & control play; lots to explore with no brain cells at risk of dying in the process.
If one does not want to consider bonding, maybe a first aid course is due or a refresher would be fitting.
bondage play*