There are studies about skipping lines in supermarkets that suggest that giving a bad excuse to skip the line quite often results in the person allowing you to skip a line while giving no excuse doesn’t.
Contradicts “leave a retreat”—offering someone a bad excuse to get out of a situation “You’re late. Was it traffic again?” might work better for the current situation than demanding why they are late.
I don’t think it is a contradiction. You can think excusing oneself is a weak move while giving other people the chance to do it. I don’t smoke, but I’d sell cigarettes.
-It is better to offer no excuse than a bad one.
George Washington, letter to his niece Harriet Washington, October 30, 1791 First president of US (1732 − 1799)
There are studies about skipping lines in supermarkets that suggest that giving a bad excuse to skip the line quite often results in the person allowing you to skip a line while giving no excuse doesn’t.
Contradicts “leave a retreat”—offering someone a bad excuse to get out of a situation “You’re late. Was it traffic again?” might work better for the current situation than demanding why they are late.
But in politics it might make sense.
I don’t think it is a contradiction. You can think excusing oneself is a weak move while giving other people the chance to do it. I don’t smoke, but I’d sell cigarettes.