Because your priorities are in the wrong order. You’re treating what should be an instrumental goal as if it were terminal, and also starting from the general “I want to have a debate” rather than the specific “I want to have a debate about X.”
However, you would have an easier time starting with “I am curious about X. I think Y, but I want to know more about this. Does anyone want to discuss?”
Because your priorities are in the wrong order. You’re treating what should be an instrumental goal as if it were terminal, and also starting from the general “I want to have a debate” rather than the specific “I want to have a debate about X.”
Comment withdrawn.
However, you would have an easier time starting with “I am curious about X. I think Y, but I want to know more about this. Does anyone want to discuss?”
Well, you could do both (explain a question in depth).