Where was that person from? In certain places, cheek-kissing is the default way to greet a female with whom one is on a first name basis, so if they were from such a place, maybe they didn’t assign a higher prior to you being weirded out by a kiss on the cheek than to you being weirded out by a handshake.
I didn’t know his name, first of all. Second, as far as I know (based on lack of obvious accent and later learning his name) he’s from America or some comparable culture. Third, reasonably aware people in the United States interacting with Americans should figure out not to kiss near-strangers pretty quick.
(I was assuming that you had at least introduced to each other and interacted for a while first. Possibly because I myself don’t usually hug people whose name I don’t know (unless we’re dancing or it’s midnight on New Year’s Day or something). Damn typical mind fallacy!)
Where was that person from? In certain places, cheek-kissing is the default way to greet a female with whom one is on a first name basis, so if they were from such a place, maybe they didn’t assign a higher prior to you being weirded out by a kiss on the cheek than to you being weirded out by a handshake.
I didn’t know his name, first of all. Second, as far as I know (based on lack of obvious accent and later learning his name) he’s from America or some comparable culture. Third, reasonably aware people in the United States interacting with Americans should figure out not to kiss near-strangers pretty quick.
(I was assuming that you had at least introduced to each other and interacted for a while first. Possibly because I myself don’t usually hug people whose name I don’t know (unless we’re dancing or it’s midnight on New Year’s Day or something). Damn typical mind fallacy!)