I have a number of fantasies that involve being female (sexual or otherwise), but the benefits that I’d imagine being able to have by having a female body and being able to occupy a particular female social role aren’t really ones that current transition technology can give me—and they can also be things that often go badly when actual women try them in real life. It’s a little like fantasizing about being a celebrity with a glamorous job—there are a lot of perks to being a rock star, but mundane reality has a way of asserting itself and the day to day life of being a touring musician has a tendency to turn into a job a lot like any other when you have to actually do it.
So I just play female characters in video games sometimes and otherwise fantasize about things that don’t work that way in real life ;)
On a related note, have you ever had an “This person is amazing and I don’t know if I’d rather fuck them or be them” feeling toward someone of a desirable gender, and do you think it’s more common among men or women?
I have a number of fantasies that involve being female (sexual or otherwise), but the benefits that I’d imagine being able to have by having a female body and being able to occupy a particular female social role aren’t really ones that current transition technology can give me—and they can also be things that often go badly when actual women try them in real life. It’s a little like fantasizing about being a celebrity with a glamorous job—there are a lot of perks to being a rock star, but mundane reality has a way of asserting itself and the day to day life of being a touring musician has a tendency to turn into a job a lot like any other when you have to actually do it.
So I just play female characters in video games sometimes and otherwise fantasize about things that don’t work that way in real life ;)
On a related note, have you ever had an “This person is amazing and I don’t know if I’d rather fuck them or be them” feeling toward someone of a desirable gender, and do you think it’s more common among men or women?