Well the good news is if it gets into the book maybe this time there’ll be common knowledge. :P
I do think there’s an upfront cost of getting your social circle familiar with frame-shifting, even when people are willing and enthusiastic about it, unfortunately.
It does seem like there should probably be a post that focuses explicitly on “how to initiate the frame-meta-conversation if your partner isn’t aware of it yet.”
Well the good news is if it gets into the book maybe this time there’ll be common knowledge. :P
I do think there’s an upfront cost of getting your social circle familiar with frame-shifting, even when people are willing and enthusiastic about it, unfortunately.
It does seem like there should probably be a post that focuses explicitly on “how to initiate the frame-meta-conversation if your partner isn’t aware of it yet.”