Definitely hasn’t felt like a part of any of my relationships either. Though I have heard various women and people I have dated say things like this resonated with them, so who knows. My guess is there is definitely something real here, but I feel pretty confused about the centrality people ascribe to it.
Maybe it’s related to being on the autistic spectrum, or something like that? Normies have their complicated social games; aspies complain about people “playing mind games” and would prefer to communicate things explicitly. Then people form bubbles where they find their opinions “obvious”.
There are bubbles where women upvote/retweet things like “if he stops when you say ‘no’, he clearly doesn’t care about you”. I was never in such bubble, but my wife was horrified to find similar things when she randomly checked some profiles of her former classmates.
Definitely hasn’t felt like a part of any of my relationships either. Though I have heard various women and people I have dated say things like this resonated with them, so who knows. My guess is there is definitely something real here, but I feel pretty confused about the centrality people ascribe to it.
Maybe it’s related to being on the autistic spectrum, or something like that? Normies have their complicated social games; aspies complain about people “playing mind games” and would prefer to communicate things explicitly. Then people form bubbles where they find their opinions “obvious”.
There are bubbles where women upvote/retweet things like “if he stops when you say ‘no’, he clearly doesn’t care about you”. I was never in such bubble, but my wife was horrified to find similar things when she randomly checked some profiles of her former classmates.