I’m going to pre-emptively tap out from all discussions about gender of LW for a while (as I mostly used to do until a while ago) because I feel that, for a series of reasons, I’m unusually out of my depth when I participate in them.
(I’m so freakin’ gender-blind that when last night I was in a flash mob against violence on women and I was the only male who actually danced and people pointed that out to me, I was like “Er… Was I? [looks around] Huh. I hoped there would be at least a couple more” and no I’m not making this up.)
Well… That kind-of sort-of illustrates my point. Or does it?
Jokes aside, I’ve already mentioned that I am unusually psychologically feminine for a man, but I would have guessed that my frequent steelmanning of stuff that many people strawman into rape apologia (e.g. pick-up artists or a series of articles on the Good Men Project) would give my gender away. But then again, I’m always steelmanning all sorts of stuff that many people strawman; I guess that’s what happens when you grow up as a Catholic (read e.g. this to get an idea of what I’m talking about).
Another example: I can’t see anything obviously womanly about “Infinity is just an eight that fell down because of depression”, and yet when I shared it (in Italian) on Facebook, it was liked by seven females and zero males, so I guess I’m missing something. (Granted, six of them are in STEM fields, so it’s not very surprising that they would enjoy nerdy humour, but I have plenty of male Facebook friends in STEM fields as well.)
I’m going to pre-emptively tap out from all discussions about gender of LW for a while (as I mostly used to do until a while ago) because I feel that, for a series of reasons, I’m unusually out of my depth when I participate in them.
(I’m so freakin’ gender-blind that when last night I was in a flash mob against violence on women and I was the only male who actually danced and people pointed that out to me, I was like “Er… Was I? [looks around] Huh. I hoped there would be at least a couple more” and no I’m not making this up.)
Huh, I always thought you were a female
Well… That kind-of sort-of illustrates my point. Or does it?
Jokes aside, I’ve already mentioned that I am unusually psychologically feminine for a man, but I would have guessed that my frequent steelmanning of stuff that many people strawman into rape apologia (e.g. pick-up artists or a series of articles on the Good Men Project) would give my gender away. But then again, I’m always steelmanning all sorts of stuff that many people strawman; I guess that’s what happens when you grow up as a Catholic (read e.g. this to get an idea of what I’m talking about).
Really liked the link.
Another example: I can’t see anything obviously womanly about “Infinity is just an eight that fell down because of depression”, and yet when I shared it (in Italian) on Facebook, it was liked by seven females and zero males, so I guess I’m missing something. (Granted, six of them are in STEM fields, so it’s not very surprising that they would enjoy nerdy humour, but I have plenty of male Facebook friends in STEM fields as well.)