Please specify why one’s self- or projected-image as a rationalist has significant impact on this decision. IMO, the question of whether to propose is far more interesting than the how. And that also requires much more input that whether one or both (or multiple) partners consider themselves “rationalist”.
Or you could just take the standard rationalist answer: “yes, if that maximizes expected utility”.
Please specify why one’s self- or projected-image as a rationalist has significant impact on this decision. IMO, the question of whether to propose is far more interesting than the how. And that also requires much more input that whether one or both (or multiple) partners consider themselves “rationalist”.
Or you could just take the standard rationalist answer: “yes, if that maximizes expected utility”.