Hmm. I think I’m not in the right social group to understand this. I don’t share a fear of invisibility, and I don’t quite see how admitting X can make one more invisible than just exhibiting behaviors of X. But again, I also suspect it’s idiosyncratic to the groups in which Bob and Alice participate, and the X in question.
I wish you the best! Thanks for posting, even if it didn’t quite resonate with me.
Hmm. I think I’m not in the right social group to understand this. I don’t share a fear of invisibility, and I don’t quite see how admitting X can make one more invisible than just exhibiting behaviors of X. But again, I also suspect it’s idiosyncratic to the groups in which Bob and Alice participate, and the X in question.
I wish you the best! Thanks for posting, even if it didn’t quite resonate with me.