Neither upvoted nor downvoted. I didn’t learn anything new from the article, but it doesn’t look obviously wrong either.
Just a note about jealousy: beating yourself up for “immaturity” whenever you feel jealous doesn’t sound to me like a healthy way to self-modify, and I wouldn’t recommend it to anyone who’s just starting out. IMO it’s better to err in the other direction and grow confidence until you lose jealousy as a side effect. That happened to me once and I didn’t even notice the change until afterward. But I’m sure you’re already happy in the place you are, so it’s probably no longer relevant to you.
beating yourself up for “immaturity” whenever you feel jealous doesn’t sound to me like a healthy way to self-modify, and I wouldn’t recommend it to anyone who’s just starting out
Good observation. I had internalized this part of Luke’s advice without finding it objectionable on my first reading of the post, but now that you make me think about it more, your note seems likely to be correct and at least important to consider.
Neither upvoted nor downvoted. I didn’t learn anything new from the article, but it doesn’t look obviously wrong either.
Just a note about jealousy: beating yourself up for “immaturity” whenever you feel jealous doesn’t sound to me like a healthy way to self-modify, and I wouldn’t recommend it to anyone who’s just starting out. IMO it’s better to err in the other direction and grow confidence until you lose jealousy as a side effect. That happened to me once and I didn’t even notice the change until afterward. But I’m sure you’re already happy in the place you are, so it’s probably no longer relevant to you.
Good observation. I had internalized this part of Luke’s advice without finding it objectionable on my first reading of the post, but now that you make me think about it more, your note seems likely to be correct and at least important to consider.