When I have something that I want to do, then categorize it as something I “should” do, I generally want to do it less.
I suspect you have cause and effect reversed there. If you want to do something a lot, you don’t categorize it as a “should” you just do it. Thus the things you categorize as “should” are the things you want to do not quiet as much.
I suspect you have cause and effect reversed there. If you want to do something a lot, you don’t categorize it as a “should” you just do it. Thus the things you categorize as “should” are the things you want to do not quiet as much.