I mean, I think his intention in communicating is the ground truth! I was suggesting his intentions as a way to operationalize the disagreement. Like, I am trying to check that you agree that if that was his intention, and I read it correctly, then you agree that you were wrong to say that I misread him. If that isn’t the case then we have a disagreement about the nature of communication on our hand, which I mean, we can go into, but doesn’t sound super exciting.
I do happen to be chatting with Michael sometime in the next few days, so I can ask. Happy to bet about what he says about what he intended to communicate! Like, I am not overwhelmingly confident, but you seem to present overwhelming confidence, so presumably you would be up for offering me a bet at good odds.
I mean, I think his intention in communicating is the ground truth! I was suggesting his intentions as a way to operationalize the disagreement. Like, I am trying to check that you agree that if that was his intention, and I read it correctly, then you agree that you were wrong to say that I misread him. If that isn’t the case then we have a disagreement about the nature of communication on our hand, which I mean, we can go into, but doesn’t sound super exciting.
I do happen to be chatting with Michael sometime in the next few days, so I can ask. Happy to bet about what he says about what he intended to communicate! Like, I am not overwhelmingly confident, but you seem to present overwhelming confidence, so presumably you would be up for offering me a bet at good odds.