@Chipmonk was previously discussing how social insecurity is exactly this—trying to control other people in ways they can’t be controlled (e.g. trying to control what they think of you), and how this means that there’s a misunderstanding of the boundaries between people. I think “The natural boundaries between people” is the most up-to-date write-up about it.
@Chipmonk was previously discussing how social insecurity is exactly this—trying to control other people in ways they can’t be controlled (e.g. trying to control what they think of you), and how this means that there’s a misunderstanding of the boundaries between people. I think “The natural boundaries between people” is the most up-to-date write-up about it.