I think relentlessness can also be a bad way to learn childrearing, if the child takes more spoons than you’ve got and you start doing really bad at it and end up abusing or neglecting your child or yourself.
Seems right, but, also, like, the point is that you don’t really get the option. (I guess this is compatible with the other part of the post, about being a subsistence farmer or sailor)
I think relentlessness can also be a bad way to learn childrearing, if the child takes more spoons than you’ve got and you start doing really bad at it and end up abusing or neglecting your child or yourself.
Seems right, but, also, like, the point is that you don’t really get the option. (I guess this is compatible with the other part of the post, about being a subsistence farmer or sailor)