If you haven’t already, talk to a guy! (typically a therapist but doesn’t have to be)
I have something like this but for decisions, where I will avoid making decisions for mysterious reasons (we figured out it’s because I can’t be sure it’d be pareto optimal, among other reasons).
I now notice more often when I’m doing this, and correct more gracefully.
If you haven’t already, talk to a guy! (typically a therapist but doesn’t have to be)
I have something like this but for decisions, where I will avoid making decisions for mysterious reasons (we figured out it’s because I can’t be sure it’d be pareto optimal, among other reasons).
I now notice more often when I’m doing this, and correct more gracefully.