How does one overcome the illusion of control over others? I feel like I think a lot about people I have crushes on because I feel like I can affect their decision to like me more than I can influence others.
Real world feedback.
If you actually ask out girls for whom you have a crush you might very soon learn that you don’t have much control over their decisions.
How does one overcome the illusion of control over others? I feel like I think a lot about people I have crushes on because I feel like I can affect their decision to like me more than I can influence others.
Real world feedback. If you actually ask out girls for whom you have a crush you might very soon learn that you don’t have much control over their decisions.
Getting to yes
edit: It turns out all this stuff I thought was pick is mainsteam, it’s on wikihow. I don’t feel like a manipulative weirdo creeper anymore :)
In general it’s useful to not use concrete names of people in public conversations like this due to privacy issues.