What should have been the trigger? When she started wearing black robes? When she started calling herself Ziz? When she started writing up her own homegrown theories of psychology? Weird clothes, weird names, and weird beliefs are part and parcel of the rationalist milieu.
FWIW, I think I had triggers around them being weird/​sketchy that would now cause me to exclude them from many community things, so I do think there were concrete triggers, and I did update on that.
FWIW, I think I had triggers around them being weird/​sketchy that would now cause me to exclude them from many community things, so I do think there were concrete triggers, and I did update on that.