I will care if people flake on me at the last minute if I’m going out to meet them, because leaving the house is hard. If I can avoid that cost to myself by inviting them to my house or even a nearby cozy cafe, I’m all for making as many tentative plans as it takes.
Problems like Zvi’s are why I want stronger schelling point meetups in the community. Rather than continue to make unreliable plans, make a solid plan that accounts for unreliability. Let there be a time and place where [things] will happen if they will and [other things] can happen if they won’t.
I will care if people flake on me at the last minute if I’m going out to meet them, because leaving the house is hard. If I can avoid that cost to myself by inviting them to my house or even a nearby cozy cafe, I’m all for making as many tentative plans as it takes.
Problems like Zvi’s are why I want stronger schelling point meetups in the community. Rather than continue to make unreliable plans, make a solid plan that accounts for unreliability. Let there be a time and place where [things] will happen if they will and [other things] can happen if they won’t.
This is kinda sorta, but not quite what happens with the flexible group I was talking about.