There are certain claims here that are concretely bad, but they’re also mixed in confusingly with what seem like nonsense complaints that are just… the reality of people spending extended time with other people, like:
“My roommates didn’t buy me vegan food while I was sick”
“Someone gives a lot of compliments to me but I don’t think they’re being genuine”
“I feel ‘low-value’”
If someone is being defrauded, yeah that’s one thing, but I’d rather not litigate “Is Kat/Emerson an asshole” in the court of public opinion.
There are certain claims here that are concretely bad, but they’re also mixed in confusingly with what seem like nonsense complaints that are just… the reality of people spending extended time with other people, like:
“My roommates didn’t buy me vegan food while I was sick”
“Someone gives a lot of compliments to me but I don’t think they’re being genuine”
“I feel ‘low-value’”
If someone is being defrauded, yeah that’s one thing, but I’d rather not litigate “Is Kat/Emerson an asshole” in the court of public opinion.
Au contraire. This is a common tactic of manipulation and abuse.
I think the point is that they were treated as low-value by their bosses.
...Is it?
Yup. See: “love bombing”.
I disagree. I think the less central complaints that were included in the post provide meaningful context and thus are worth including.