In the meta, obligation to comply with requests exists without a present request. Similar to the obligation to not murder people under the social contract whether or not you plan to murder someone or are holding the knife.
people don’t think like that in the moment, and in any case few actually hold any such beliefs even in general
We know different people. I have heard enough times, a version of, “what would they think of me” or “I can’t break the rules”. I happen to have taught people to not care what others think. But have it inherent in my head.
absurd and unethical
Nvc subscribers do not believe it is absurd and I suspect the belief stems from the willingness to themselves subscribe to the system. Ie people who enjoy the SECOND thing. In a THIRD—I like giving gifts for me, way.
In the meta, obligation to comply with requests exists without a present request. Similar to the obligation to not murder people under the social contract whether or not you plan to murder someone or are holding the knife.
We know different people. I have heard enough times, a version of, “what would they think of me” or “I can’t break the rules”. I happen to have taught people to not care what others think. But have it inherent in my head.
Nvc subscribers do not believe it is absurd and I suspect the belief stems from the willingness to themselves subscribe to the system. Ie people who enjoy the SECOND thing. In a THIRD—I like giving gifts for me, way.