Where’s the level-1 connection / compatibility?
Actual shared interests.
Compatible worldview and values.
Joint projects or genuinely enjoyable activities.
Compatible knowledge and curiosity (ability to teach and learn with individuals in the target group).
Those things were covered both under conformity (e.g. sharing interests with a group, fitting in) and value (which lists knowledge, skills, etc.)
Ah, I see. The bullet-point format made it seem like you were focused on “appear to ” and “signal that ”, rather than underlying truth of connections with individuals.
I see an important distinction between “try to fit in” and “do actually fit in”.
Where’s the level-1 connection / compatibility?
Actual shared interests.
Compatible worldview and values.
Joint projects or genuinely enjoyable activities.
Compatible knowledge and curiosity (ability to teach and learn with individuals in the target group).
Those things were covered both under conformity (e.g. sharing interests with a group, fitting in) and value (which lists knowledge, skills, etc.)
Ah, I see. The bullet-point format made it seem like you were focused on “appear to ” and “signal that ”, rather than underlying truth of connections with individuals.
I see an important distinction between “try to fit in” and “do actually fit in”.