it’s just a “boo”, a tribal signal of who is outgroup.
Hmm. It doesn’t feel that from the inside—I boo myself and close friends when I notice them doing something boo-worthy (like giving advice that seems to apply generally but which they don’t take themselves). Someone who I only ever boo and never yay is someone I don’t want to hang around much, but that’s different from “outgroup” as I understand it.
Some very specific examples would help a lot—it may be that you’re giving louder boos than I, and you’re just arguing to tone them down a bit. I’d fully agree with that position. It may be that you’re saying that hypocritical advice is precisely as trustworthy as experience-backed advice, and I’d disagree with that.
Hmm. It doesn’t feel that from the inside—I boo myself and close friends when I notice them doing something boo-worthy (like giving advice that seems to apply generally but which they don’t take themselves). Someone who I only ever boo and never yay is someone I don’t want to hang around much, but that’s different from “outgroup” as I understand it.
Some very specific examples would help a lot—it may be that you’re giving louder boos than I, and you’re just arguing to tone them down a bit. I’d fully agree with that position. It may be that you’re saying that hypocritical advice is precisely as trustworthy as experience-backed advice, and I’d disagree with that.