At this point the motivation of “feeling awful” is being made to encourage her to improve her child-managing skills. She can be defensive about it, but no amount of defensiveness can apologise for her bad form which offended a great number of people (I have to wonder how many people have not posted on the thread, once voice of dissent is probably equal to at least 10 silent participants with the same opinion)
She can be defensive about it, but no amount of defensiveness can apologise for her bad form which offended a great number of people
FYI “defensiveness” is bad because she will not change her mind. I didn’t mean “she’ll be offended”. Katie not being defensive is positive for your goals.
At this point the motivation of “feeling awful” is being made to encourage her to improve her child-managing skills. She can be defensive about it, but no amount of defensiveness can apologise for her bad form which offended a great number of people (I have to wonder how many people have not posted on the thread, once voice of dissent is probably equal to at least 10 silent participants with the same opinion)
FYI “defensiveness” is bad because she will not change her mind. I didn’t mean “she’ll be offended”. Katie not being defensive is positive for your goals.