I think people impose social requirements on others when they’re unable/unwilling to take full control of themselves. I might tell someone “I’m setting a boundary: don’t insult me!” when I feel that I can’t take control of my own interpretations, and the fact that someone insulting me doesn’t mean I need to e.g. feel worthless.
It’s not that yelling doesn’t imply an unwanted state of the world, it often does, but it doesn’t require that you suffer about it. I go into this in more detail in my draft
Maybe. This comes off as severely mentally ill to me. But I guess that’s part of your point—if you don’t properly acknowledge the sovereignty issues, you’re going to be in deep trouble. It’s just that I think there exists a lot of dynamics on top of that which don’t seem to reduce to membrane issues?
There are certainly agreements that we make with other people on top of our sovereignty (for example, I “agree” (in some sense) to live in my country at the cost of having to pay taxes), but, crucially, I think sovereignty is at the bottom.
I think people impose social requirements on others when they’re unable/unwilling to take full control of themselves. I might tell someone “I’m setting a boundary: don’t insult me!” when I feel that I can’t take control of my own interpretations, and the fact that someone insulting me doesn’t mean I need to e.g. feel worthless.
It’s not that yelling doesn’t imply an unwanted state of the world, it often does, but it doesn’t require that you suffer about it. I go into this in more detail in my draft
Maybe. This comes off as severely mentally ill to me. But I guess that’s part of your point—if you don’t properly acknowledge the sovereignty issues, you’re going to be in deep trouble. It’s just that I think there exists a lot of dynamics on top of that which don’t seem to reduce to membrane issues?
There are certainly agreements that we make with other people on top of our sovereignty (for example, I “agree” (in some sense) to live in my country at the cost of having to pay taxes), but, crucially, I think sovereignty is at the bottom.