Pushback against women’s sexual freedom would be a tragedy. How can the likelihood of such a trend be reduced? (Profoundly disagree with the whole ‘alphas monopolizing women’ PUA thing, but still.)
So you’d consider a place where patriarchy has completely collapsed, say present day Detroit, to be an example of desirable civilization. I prefer cities where the infrastructure works and you don’t risk getting shoot walking down the street, but to each his own.
a place where patriarchy has completely collapsed, say present day Detroit
How did patriarchy collapse in Detroit, exactly? This is a city looted to the ground by corrupt bureaucrats run amok, a failed-state kind of phenomenon. I don’t see gender politics playing any major role here.
I don’t think that’s what happened in Detroit either.
Really, what happened was that most of the auto jobs left, and much of the population with it. It’s a city that’s had a shrinking population for 4 decades now. That means a huge amount of abandoned houses, whole city blocks with only one or two people living on them. Because of that, you have a dramatically reduced tax revenue that’s no longer able to cover the costs of adequate services, and you have all the social problems of abandoned housing (increased crime and fire risk) without the resources to deal with it. We’ve never had to deal with a shrinking city in the US before, and we really haven’t figured out how to deal with it.
I do agree with you, though, that it clearly has nothing to do with “gender politics” or whatever bizzare explanation the person you’re responding to was referencing.
In general, cities like Chicago and LA have lower crime then they have in decades, have higher property values then they have in decades, and are contributing a great deal to the economy on a per capita basis. Cities in the US in general are doing quite well right now.
In the 1980′s, people often argued that cities were “decaying” and all that; the opposite is true now, young people are moving back to cities in large numbers, probably because the high crime rate that drove people out of cities 30 years ago is now way down.
Well the most direct method is that some of the early programs were specifically for single mothers, and one tends to get more of what one subsidizes. The less direct effect is that freed from the practical need for a provider women were free to indulge their hypergamic impulses.
I believe you are deeply incorrect about almost everything you’ve said in this thread regarding this subject. Can you direct me to any literature that supports anything you’re saying?
I would not describe any spot in the entire American continent as a place where patriarchy has completely collapsed. Or where you don’t risk getting shot in the street, for that matter. Perhaps Iceland or Sweden might fit both descriptions.
Edited to add: I’m curious. What exactly happened in Detroit?
More comparisons are needed before drawing conclusions: single mothers vs. single fathers, single parents of any gender vs. two-parent families, single mothers with education vs. single mothers without, etc. If it turns out that it is specifically families led by women that are having more trouble making ends meet than families led by men, it sounds like patriarchy has not disappeared one bit in Detroit.
If it turns out that it is specifically families led by women that are having more trouble making ends meet
What do you mean by “having more trouble making ends meet”? Between welfare programs and the occasional affirmative action job the women are perfectly capable of providing enough food for their children. It’s just that the children are growing up feral, for lack of a better word.
… says the guy who at the beginning of this debate called me an ignorant in history.
Look, I made no claims about you. I dismissively sneered at one idea you expressed. There is a difference.
Now back to the actual argument: A city affected by bad management and a bad economy adds a ton of confounding factors to any assessment of gender relations. You need to look at non-patriarchal societies that have kept all other variables unchanged, and claiming that abandoning patriarchy is the cause of bad management and bad economy simply won’t do.
The problem isn’t being ‘headed by’ women, it’s having only one caregiver who is on top of that locked into an on-average even-lower-wage state by their gender. Isn’t that at least as much a ‘men can get away with abandoning their offspring or being so shitty they are cast out’ problem?
Pushback against women’s sexual freedom would be a tragedy. How can the likelihood of such a trend be reduced? (Profoundly disagree with the whole ‘alphas monopolizing women’ PUA thing, but still.)
Reason? It strikes me as the only way to preserve civilization.
Whose civilization? It doesn’t sound like the one you want would be a happy one.
So you’d consider a place where patriarchy has completely collapsed, say present day Detroit, to be an example of desirable civilization. I prefer cities where the infrastructure works and you don’t risk getting shoot walking down the street, but to each his own.
How did patriarchy collapse in Detroit, exactly? This is a city looted to the ground by corrupt bureaucrats run amok, a failed-state kind of phenomenon. I don’t see gender politics playing any major role here.
I don’t think that’s what happened in Detroit either.
Really, what happened was that most of the auto jobs left, and much of the population with it. It’s a city that’s had a shrinking population for 4 decades now. That means a huge amount of abandoned houses, whole city blocks with only one or two people living on them. Because of that, you have a dramatically reduced tax revenue that’s no longer able to cover the costs of adequate services, and you have all the social problems of abandoned housing (increased crime and fire risk) without the resources to deal with it. We’ve never had to deal with a shrinking city in the US before, and we really haven’t figured out how to deal with it.
I do agree with you, though, that it clearly has nothing to do with “gender politics” or whatever bizzare explanation the person you’re responding to was referencing.
I could half replaced Detroit with (parts of) say Chicago or LA. Detroit is just more dramatic since the dysfunction took over the whole city.
In general, cities like Chicago and LA have lower crime then they have in decades, have higher property values then they have in decades, and are contributing a great deal to the economy on a per capita basis. Cities in the US in general are doing quite well right now.
In the 1980′s, people often argued that cities were “decaying” and all that; the opposite is true now, young people are moving back to cities in large numbers, probably because the high crime rate that drove people out of cities 30 years ago is now way down.
A (possibly) unintended side effect of the welfare system is that women are raising children without fathers.
Care to explain how the welfare system caused fatherless households?
Well the most direct method is that some of the early programs were specifically for single mothers, and one tends to get more of what one subsidizes. The less direct effect is that freed from the practical need for a provider women were free to indulge their hypergamic impulses.
I believe you are deeply incorrect about almost everything you’ve said in this thread regarding this subject. Can you direct me to any literature that supports anything you’re saying?
I would not describe any spot in the entire American continent as a place where patriarchy has completely collapsed. Or where you don’t risk getting shot in the street, for that matter. Perhaps Iceland or Sweden might fit both descriptions.
Edited to add: I’m curious. What exactly happened in Detroit?
Most families are headed by women.
More comparisons are needed before drawing conclusions: single mothers vs. single fathers, single parents of any gender vs. two-parent families, single mothers with education vs. single mothers without, etc. If it turns out that it is specifically families led by women that are having more trouble making ends meet than families led by men, it sounds like patriarchy has not disappeared one bit in Detroit.
What do you mean by “having more trouble making ends meet”? Between welfare programs and the occasional affirmative action job the women are perfectly capable of providing enough food for their children. It’s just that the children are growing up feral, for lack of a better word.
Are you claiming that women who are alone cannot raise good kids?
That’s contradictory. I thought raising kids was what women were traditionally described as good for.
Or are you claiming that women can only raise good kids when a man is present?
That’s the best argument I’ve seen for stay-at-home dads, but I bet you’d see that as a degeneration of the good old values.
Or are you claiming that men are the indispensable and irreplaceable moral compass of a family?
Now that’s bovine feces, for lack of a better word.
Hint: present =/= literally present every second.
Translation: “I can’t think of an even vaguely passable rebuttal, better resort to name calling.”
… says the guy who at the beginning of this debate called me an ignorant in history.
Look, I made no claims about you. I dismissively sneered at one idea you expressed. There is a difference.
Now back to the actual argument: A city affected by bad management and a bad economy adds a ton of confounding factors to any assessment of gender relations. You need to look at non-patriarchal societies that have kept all other variables unchanged, and claiming that abandoning patriarchy is the cause of bad management and bad economy simply won’t do.
The problem isn’t being ‘headed by’ women, it’s having only one caregiver who is on top of that locked into an on-average even-lower-wage state by their gender. Isn’t that at least as much a ‘men can get away with abandoning their offspring or being so shitty they are cast out’ problem?
Yeah, sure, there are no possible counfounders there, the infrastructure works much better in Sicily than in Denmark, &c. &c. Not.