My post is that poeple should be careful about things he’s not explicitly committed to that are not about basic deontology (see the post). (And I don’t feel like starting a reply with “lol no” a week later was particularly good faith; friends tell me it was rude.) Our values align a lot, and yet.
I was not confident that I would not be retaliated against (though mostly I expected that because of the social pressure, it would be very surprising if he did); but mostly, I pretty much didn’t think about it and generally, I ignore the possibility of retaliation when speaking up/doing what’s right.
Great that you’ve had a positive experience!
My post is that poeple should be careful about things he’s not explicitly committed to that are not about basic deontology (see the post). (And I don’t feel like starting a reply with “lol no” a week later was particularly good faith; friends tell me it was rude.) Our values align a lot, and yet.
I was not confident that I would not be retaliated against (though mostly I expected that because of the social pressure, it would be very surprising if he did); but mostly, I pretty much didn’t think about it and generally, I ignore the possibility of retaliation when speaking up/doing what’s right.