But he isn’t recommending preferring chastity in others, but rather being chaste ourselves until we have a “ripeness of instinct and discretion” (i.e. have attained maturity).
This definition of chastity includes not just virgins but everyone who shows discretion in choosing sex partners, and doesn’t accept the “first comer”.
I wouldn’t have any problem with the quote if that’s the case, discretion is good. However I’ve never seen chastity used in a way that didn’t mean virgin. Actually, come to think of it, the English language could really use a word for “discerning but liberated person”.
But he isn’t recommending preferring chastity in others, but rather being chaste ourselves until we have a “ripeness of instinct and discretion” (i.e. have attained maturity).
This definition of chastity includes not just virgins but everyone who shows discretion in choosing sex partners, and doesn’t accept the “first comer”.
I wouldn’t have any problem with the quote if that’s the case, discretion is good. However I’ve never seen chastity used in a way that didn’t mean virgin. Actually, come to think of it, the English language could really use a word for “discerning but liberated person”.