If the problem is loneliness, then the solution is not to force people to feel un-lonely. It is to get people to work it out for themselves. (Which may be a valid but different project)
I’m not sure how much of a disagreement we have regarding the NVC paradigm. I very much didn’t mean for the solution to be “force people to be un-lonely”, so if that’s how it came across, sorry for that miscommunication. (The OP was just a high level summary of what sort of problems I’m trying to address)
I very much agree with NVC that it’s important to have an internal locus of control. But you can still look at an overall situation, notice that a lot of people are struggling to make things work, and notice things about a culture that are making it harder to solve a problem.
I’m not sure how much of a disagreement we have regarding the NVC paradigm. I very much didn’t mean for the solution to be “force people to be un-lonely”, so if that’s how it came across, sorry for that miscommunication. (The OP was just a high level summary of what sort of problems I’m trying to address)
I very much agree with NVC that it’s important to have an internal locus of control. But you can still look at an overall situation, notice that a lot of people are struggling to make things work, and notice things about a culture that are making it harder to solve a problem.