Taking online dating seriously, rather than passively swiping or hoping I randomly bump into “the one”. I reasoned from first principles that having a good partner is very valuable, and that online dating was a numbers game. So I borrowed my friend’s DSLR camera, took good outdoor pictures, and used this website that lets strangers vote on which of your pictures is the best so I didn’t have to rely on my own judgment for that. I researched Tinder bios and put effort into my bio. I swiped like crazy on two dating apps. I paid for premium. If you’re online dating but not paying for premium, I invite you to do some napkin math on the estimated value of a good partner. I predict you’ll realize premium is under-priced compared to the value you receive by several orders of magnitude, and then you’ll pay for it. All this led to me going on several dates a week until I found my current girlfriend, who I have been with for years and am very happy with.
A lot of guys who use OLD to date need to hear this. I gradually realized this towards the end of my dating life.
I didn’t go quite that far (as I met my partner irl) but I probably would have and realized I should, it’s the meta
Strong agree that it’s not that much money if you’re taking it seriously
A lot of guys who use OLD to date need to hear this. I gradually realized this towards the end of my dating life.
I didn’t go quite that far (as I met my partner irl) but I probably would have and realized I should, it’s the meta
Strong agree that it’s not that much money if you’re taking it seriously