The reason bars bore you, is probably that you lack the social skills.
That seems like an odd hypothesis. “Bored” is not how I describe my emotional state when I’m engaging in some activity for which I lack skill.
For my part, I find bars boring because there’s nothing entertaining to do there. I don’t even see how people have interesting social interactions in them; most bars I’ve been to have been very loud, and the people have been drinking excessively, such that one cannot even have an interesting conversation. But then, my hearing is terrible in loud places, so YMMV.
If you lack good social skills the amount you talk while you are in bars is lower than it would be if you have good skills.
If you talk less there’s more time to be bored.
If you dance more you are also less likely to be bored.
I doubt many people here find talking inherently interesting. The topic has to be engaging too, and the overwhelming majority of people in bars don’t allow for that.
That seems like an odd hypothesis. “Bored” is not how I describe my emotional state when I’m engaging in some activity for which I lack skill.
For my part, I find bars boring because there’s nothing entertaining to do there. I don’t even see how people have interesting social interactions in them; most bars I’ve been to have been very loud, and the people have been drinking excessively, such that one cannot even have an interesting conversation. But then, my hearing is terrible in loud places, so YMMV.
If you lack good social skills the amount you talk while you are in bars is lower than it would be if you have good skills. If you talk less there’s more time to be bored.
If you dance more you are also less likely to be bored.
I doubt many people here find talking inherently interesting. The topic has to be engaging too, and the overwhelming majority of people in bars don’t allow for that.