The reason bars bore you, is probably that you lack the social skills. Practice happens to be a way to develop skills.
Not the grandparent commenter, but bars bore me because I don’t find socializing with strangers in a bar setting to be particularly interesting. For me, it’d be like riding a unicycle—something I don’t know how to do, but I can tell I wouldn’t enjoy that much anyway
Not the grandparent commenter, but bars bore me because I don’t find socializing with strangers in a bar setting to be particularly interesting. For me, it’d be like riding a unicycle—something I don’t know how to do, but I can tell I wouldn’t enjoy that much anyway
What about going there with people you already know?
If I want to spend time with them, a bar is far from the optimal place to do it.
The post you quote doesn’t advocate going there for the purpose of enjoyment but to achieve secondary objectives.
If you have a goal, and path A to the goal is boring, that doesn’t mean that going down path A is automatically out of question.
You might find a better path than A, but if A is the only thing you are left with, go down A even if it’s boring if it brings you towards your goal.