Yeah, I hear ya. I don’t see any low hanging fruit here such as attempting to apply NVC. What I mean is that I think there are solutions out there that we haven’t discovered yet. And not in the distant sense of “have nanobots rewire Said’s brain”; I suspect that The Art really does contain solutions that aren’t super distant or high-tech.
I suspect that The Art really does contain solutions that aren’t super distant or high-tech.
I notice that you’re reaching for it too.
It’s promising that despite Said’s criticisms of NVC, and that you’re doing exactly what you described as the thing “something like” NVC, it’s going quite well so far. That’s a harder test, but when you get the principles right, things work regardless. It doesn’t matter if Said’s stance is “NVC is about status plays” because you aren’t doing status plays, and it shows.
Yeah, I hear ya. I don’t see any low hanging fruit here such as attempting to apply NVC. What I mean is that I think there are solutions out there that we haven’t discovered yet. And not in the distant sense of “have nanobots rewire Said’s brain”; I suspect that The Art really does contain solutions that aren’t super distant or high-tech.
I notice that you’re reaching for it too.
It’s promising that despite Said’s criticisms of NVC, and that you’re doing exactly what you described as the thing “something like” NVC, it’s going quite well so far. That’s a harder test, but when you get the principles right, things work regardless. It doesn’t matter if Said’s stance is “NVC is about status plays” because you aren’t doing status plays, and it shows.
Respect.