Oh and as a side note, I have twice in my life had a short introductory conversation with a person, noticed that something unusual or interesting was happening (but not having any idea what), and then finding out subsequently that the person I was talking with had done a lot of circling.
The first person was Pete, who I had a conversation with shortly after EAG 2015, before he came to work for CFAR. The other was an HR person at a tech company that I was cajoled into interviewing at, despite not really having any relevant skills.
I would be hard pressed to say exactly what was interesting about those conversations: something like “the way they were asking questions was...something. Probing? Intentional? Alive?” Those words really don’t capture it, but whatever was happening I had a detector that pinged “something about this situation unusual.”
Oh and as a side note, I have twice in my life had a short introductory conversation with a person, noticed that something unusual or interesting was happening (but not having any idea what), and then finding out subsequently that the person I was talking with had done a lot of circling.
The first person was Pete, who I had a conversation with shortly after EAG 2015, before he came to work for CFAR. The other was an HR person at a tech company that I was cajoled into interviewing at, despite not really having any relevant skills.
I would be hard pressed to say exactly what was interesting about those conversations: something like “the way they were asking questions was...something. Probing? Intentional? Alive?” Those words really don’t capture it, but whatever was happening I had a detector that pinged “something about this situation unusual.”
Coming back to this, I think I would describe it as “they seemed like they were actually paying attention”, which was so unusual as to be noteworthy.