I’ve got a problem. My sleep schedule is FUCKED UP.
Yesterday, I went to bed at around 8:00 AM and got up at 10:00 PM. I don’t normally sleep 14 hours, but I’ve somehow become nocturnal; sleeping from 7 AM until up at 5 PM isn’t particularly unusual for me. I’m not actually sleep deprived, but always sleeping through “normal business hours” tends to cause me problems—I can’t get to the bank even when it’s important—and isn’t very convenient for my girlfriend either. My father jokes that I must be turning into a vampire because I’m never awake when the sun is up. Now, I don’t actually have a job or go to school, and my only fixed-time obligation is to help my wheelchair-bound mother get into bed, which tends to start at around 1 AM and finish between 3 AM and 4 AM. (There’s nobody else to do it at that hour and getting her to go to bed at a different time, or to get ready faster, is practically impossible and not worth the screaming.)
You could get your dad to wake you up at 1 pm every day if he’s around For me, having a person wake me up is way more effective. Alternately, just do it the hard way and stay up for 30 hrs.
It’s hard to see what scope there is for the problem to get all that much better if you are required to be awake from 1am to 3am (or later) every day. It seems like the best you can do is to try to establish a routine of always going straight to bed (and not reading, browsing the internet, etc., once there) after dealing with your mother, which might maybe get you a ~ 4am-12pm sleeping time on typical days.
What happens if you try to go to bed just ten minutes earlier each day than you did the day before, using an alarm clock? What about ten minutes later?
I’ve got a problem. My sleep schedule is FUCKED UP.
Yesterday, I went to bed at around 8:00 AM and got up at 10:00 PM. I don’t normally sleep 14 hours, but I’ve somehow become nocturnal; sleeping from 7 AM until up at 5 PM isn’t particularly unusual for me. I’m not actually sleep deprived, but always sleeping through “normal business hours” tends to cause me problems—I can’t get to the bank even when it’s important—and isn’t very convenient for my girlfriend either. My father jokes that I must be turning into a vampire because I’m never awake when the sun is up. Now, I don’t actually have a job or go to school, and my only fixed-time obligation is to help my wheelchair-bound mother get into bed, which tends to start at around 1 AM and finish between 3 AM and 4 AM. (There’s nobody else to do it at that hour and getting her to go to bed at a different time, or to get ready faster, is practically impossible and not worth the screaming.)
Any advice?
Some kind of polyphasic sleep? E.g. from 9 PM to 1 AM (4 hours) and then from 4 AM to 8 AM (4 hours).
You could get your dad to wake you up at 1 pm every day if he’s around For me, having a person wake me up is way more effective. Alternately, just do it the hard way and stay up for 30 hrs.
It’s hard to see what scope there is for the problem to get all that much better if you are required to be awake from 1am to 3am (or later) every day. It seems like the best you can do is to try to establish a routine of always going straight to bed (and not reading, browsing the internet, etc., once there) after dealing with your mother, which might maybe get you a ~ 4am-12pm sleeping time on typical days.
That’s actually a lot better than what I’ve been doing recently. :(
What happens if you try to go to bed just ten minutes earlier each day than you did the day before, using an alarm clock? What about ten minutes later?