From personal anecdote it seems pretty clear to me people have idiosyncratic preferences orthogonal to general desirability that are real.
Even spending a lot of time with people that don’t fit those preferences does not make them attractive.
I do take your points about the state of the research.
From personal anecdote it seems pretty clear to me people have idiosyncratic preferences orthogonal to general desirability that are real. Even spending a lot of time with people that don’t fit those preferences does not make them attractive.
I do take your points about the state of the research.